Life, despite popular belief, isn’t a game. It’s the prize.
If you suspect that life might, in truth, be a game, your next step might be to try to figure out what kind of game it is. My recommendation is that you skip that step altogether. Instead, ask yourself what you think the goal might be: a) to win or b) to have fun.
Not that those two are mutually exclusive, but rather to note that they are a) not the same, and b) winning is what happens when the game is over. Hence, in all likelihood, longevity-wise, not the fun it’s cracked up to be.
On the other hand, it’s easy to understand why we make that mistake – thinking that life is a game. Because when we are playing a game, and the game is good and we are playing well, we feel more, well, alive. And we call it “fun.” But the real fun of fun is not because of the game, it’s because of the experience of aliveness, of being in life, in the whole of it, completely. That’s the prize, if you want to call it that, the feeling of being alive. Like the feeling you get when just jump into the swimming pool without even testing how cold the water is first (just look at the dog in the photo!), or the feeling of almost drowning in your lover’s eyes (look at the photo again, lol), or the feeling you get when you watch animals at play: the sheer aliveness of it all.
And as long as we think of it as a game, especially one that we think we can win, we pretend that we haven’t won yet. We pretend that when we win, and only when we win, we’ll have something we can really celebrate, something we can delight in, victory at last. When all along, the fun, the aliveness we’ve been experiencing is the only victory that counts. The only victory.
And isn’t that just like life?
© 2017 viewpointsofandrei.com
I read this piece of writing fully concerning the resemblance of latest and previous technologies, it’s amazing article.
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Thank you for the heartwarming comment.
Thanks for dropping by. I’m grateful.
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Sir you are too good. Your view on life an inspiring one just love your blogs
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Thank you, Divesh!
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I agree with your opinion! Nice post, thanks for sharing!
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You’re welcome. Thank you for dropping by ☺ Glad you liked this one.
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You are insightful and have a very good perception about life. I simply love your posts…
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Thank you! I appreciate your visit to my blog and all the wonderful and heartwarming comments. I noticed that you really took time to read. I’m so happy for the awesome gesture, Nikesh!
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Again, my pleasure sir…
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interesting approach
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In a way, yes. Thanks for dropping by Ben! Hope you like what you’ve read 🙂
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Andrei, I love this “The role of a writer is not to say what we all can say, but what we are unable to say…”
You are gifted!
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Thank you! That means a lot to me! 🙂
Apparently, that’s what I was trying to achieve thru this blog–to share my otherwise unconventional ways of viewing things–and somehow by it, I will be able to entice curiosity from my readers and (*hopefully*) they’ll eventually consider such views and learn from them.
I am by nature an out-of-the-box thinker, I guess, if there’d be such a category.
Just so to be clear though, my posts bears no strings attached to them 🙂
Thanks once again for the compliment!
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🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 :)- (Smiling)
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I agree with your post! “And as long as we think of it as a game, especially one that we think we can win, we pretend that we haven’t won yet. We pretend that when we win, and only when we win, we’ll have something we can really celebrate, something we can delight in, victory at last. When all along, the fun, the aliveness we’ve been experiencing is the only victory that counts. The only victory.” I think I will quote you in my upcoming blog, only if you don’t mind!
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Sure, go ahead! It will be my pleasure 🙂
Thanks for the comment, btw 🙂
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Not a problem! Great! 🙂
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Looking forward to that 🙂
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Great post! Love the dog!
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Hahaha. Me too! Thanks for reading 🙂
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Would it be okay if you checked to see if I got your information correct?
karenviramontes.com/2017/01/20/blogger-recognition-award/
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Thank you, Karen. It was such an honor! 😃 Left you a comment on your post.
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As one of your followers above noted “life can be fun” but it is serious, so serious that eternity hinges on it.
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Yes. I’m a firm believer on that too. Eternity is our reward and it is mainly dependent on how we chose to live our lives in this world in response to the grace of God. While trying to savor our prize in this called ‘game of life’ we should never forget to live our lives in view of our impending reward too 🙂
Thanks Tom and Audrey for the wisdom! Glad I found you here! 🙂
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Oh wow! Listen to those words, “life can be fun” but it is serious, so serious that eternity hinges on it.” WOW!
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Yeah. I was blown out with that line too! Haha. Tom and Audrey are wonderfully amazing and wisdom-filled people. You should check out their blog too, mainly showcasing their journeys thru photos with lovely bits of wisdom and inspiration thrown in between. Just click on their link appearing in this comment section 🙂
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I will do that! Thank you Andrei! They are amazing! The words just bounce in your ears! WOW! I need to pay them a visit!
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Great! 🙂
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Thank you.
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You are so very welcome! 🙂
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Don’t mention it 🙂 You’re welcome!
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Agree with your views.
I once met this lady who had a tattoo of “Life is like a game, you get what your delt.” And a hand of cards.
I never understood why she got it.
Like yes life can be a fun game. But, you can always change the cards you’ve been delt. It’s not permanent. Because those cards I may have been delt are not the outcome to my life.
I hope I made sense😂 hard to comment through a cellphone.
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Yeah. You’re right, we can actually “defy” the cards we’ve been dealt in life. Coincidentally, I’ve written about the matter here in my blog not long in the past, thought you might want to check it out and tell me your thoughts about it 🙂
https://viewpointsofandrei.com/2016/11/10/play-the-hands-youre-dealt
Pleasure having you here, Karen 🙂 I find it hard to comment using my ipad too, hahaha, it has this auto-correct set up and it tend to mess up the words sometimes, notwithstanding the literally minute keypad!
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Thank you for the reblog! As always, I’m honored 🙏😃
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It is more than worthy. thanks for your wonderful article.
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It’s my pleasure. It was only thru my desire to offer up a little bit of inspiration and something to think about out into the world. And, acknowledgements such as this warms my heart and motivates me to share more.
Thank you. I appreciate the generous gesture. All the best to Zaggolenews!
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Good morning, Andrei!
Absolutely agree on this one. Instead of focusing on the win, just enjoying and playing the game changes the entire perspective with which you look at it.
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Hey, Pranitha, glad for the visit 😃 Glad you do agree with my post too! Always a pleasure having you here 🙂
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🙂
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Beautiful perception, I agree with your views.
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Thank you. Glad you do 🙂
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